What Is Love? progress and passion
Valentine's Day is all about love. But what, exactly, is that?
Helen Fisher is an anthropologist at
Fisher breaks love into three distinct brain systems that enable mating and reproduction:
• Sex drive
• Romantic love (obsession, passion, infatuation)
• Attachment (peace and security with a long-term partner)
These are brain systems, not phases, Fisher emphasize, and all three play a role in love. They can operate independently, but people want all three for an ideal relationship.
"I think the sex drive evolve to get you out there looking for a range of partners," she said.
"I think romantic love evolved to enable you to focus your mating energy on just one at a time, and attachment evolved to tolerate that person at least long enough to raise a child together as a team."
Valentine's Day, Fisher added, used to include only two of these three brain systems: sex drive and romantic love.
But "once you start giving the dog a valentine, you are talking about a real expression of attachment as well as romantic love."
The Difference Between Relationship And Friendship
What is the difference between a close friendship and a close relation? Most of us believe that when friendship becomes stronger, it may turn into relationship. The truth is different. Think about the kind of talk you have with your friends. You are always very open about your failures and shortcomings. You are not shy of talking about your problem and asking friends to help. In a close friendship, you expect to know everything about each other.
How about a relationship? Think about animals. They also show their best side to their mate. We human beings keep lot of secrets away from our partner. We do not want to tell about our failures and shortcomings. We also try to impress our partner when we are in romance. This difference between friendship and relationship is very deep. We calculate our moves in a relationship but are very open in a friendship. We are like a child in friendships but behave like an adult in relationships. If you remain inside your boundaries in a relationship and not try to change it into a close friendship, you will have longer relationships
. Telling all does not help in relationships.
Dennis Waitley--the "Psychology of Winning" guy--and he made this statement: "I want to be the kind of person who makes others say, 'I like myself best when I'm with you.'" .
LOVE is heaven when it is success. But it is hell when unsuccessful. Actually success depend on condition. That means, when they love each other and want to live together then get married, it is success. Success depend on many things.
1.Sacrifice for each other.
2.Mind adjust.
3.Wish to get by any cost.
4.Want to understand one another
5.Want to suffer any kinds of struggle to each for other.
It is the main points of success. After have many things to depend on success.